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Empowering Escape: How to Exit Domestic Abuse Safely and Confidently

Inspirational
March 24, 2025•3 min read

Imagine waking up every day, feeling trapped in a cycle of fear and uncertainty. Perhaps you don't have to imagine this because you are living in this cycle now. Domestic abuse doesn't just bruise the skin but scars the soul. Are you wondering how to break free from this invisible prison? You're not alone, and you deserve a life full of peace and happiness. I want to encourage you, there are steps that can guide you toward freedom and safety.

My podcast guest on Episode 30 of Let's Make Some NOISE was Janet Kelly and she shares her own experience in this cycle and how she got out of it. Janice is now a high conflict negotiator.

When Love Turns to Fear

It starts subtly, perhaps a harsh word or a controlling gesture, but how do you know when it crosses the line into abuse? If you're questioning your safety or happiness in your relationship, trust your instincts. Abuse can take many forms, from physical violence to emotional manipulation. Recognizing the signs is the first bold step toward reclaiming your power.

You’re Not Alone

Reaching out can feel daunting, but remember: it's vital and shows strength. Confide in trusted friends, family, or support groups who can offer unwavering support and practical advice. Connecting with local women's shelters or hotlines will open doors to resources that can help you plan your exit strategy safely and effectively. If you are the friend to the abused, Janet offers great advice to you in the podcast episode too.

Preparing for a Brave Escape

When the moment comes to leave, a solid safety plan becomes your lifeline. This plan should include a secret stash of essentials like cash, important documents, and personal items kept in a secure place. Knowing where to go, who to call, and what to do if faced with immediate danger will bolster your confidence and ensure a smoother escape. In the podcast, Janice offers several sites where you can find resources for these safety plans.

Protecting Your Rights

Understanding your legal rights is crucial to securing your freedom. Seek guidance from legal professionals who specialize in domestic abuse cases. They can help obtain restraining orders, provide advocacy, and guide you through the legal process. Remember, the law is on your side, and utilizing it is an empowering part of your journey.

Healing and Rebuilding

Leaving is not just an end - it's a beginning. As you step into your new life, support your emotional recovery by engaging in therapy or support groups tailored for survivors. Over time, you'll rediscover your inner strength and rebuild your life on your terms.

Courage to Overcome

You possess the courage and resilience to overcome this challenge. Your future is bright, filled with hope and unlimited possibilities. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, take the first step today. Reach out, seek support, and believe in the life you deserve, because it’s within reach.

Be sure to check out the podcast episode with Janet Kelly, a domestic abuse survivor and certified high conflict negotiator HERE

With nearly two decades of entrepreneurial experience, Edwina is a military veteran and retired paramedic who now specializes in business coaching and consulting. As a time management specialist, she helps business owners align their systems with personal goals to reclaim time and achieve real success. Edwina also delivers inspiring talks and has a podcast that empowers and motivates audiences, especially women in business. Edwina is also a loyal friend, loving wife, and mom who adores cool shoes. She is a published author, speaker and thought leader known as "Edwina the Encourager". Edwina not only survived challenging situations, including her first marriage to a con man, a near-death experience, founding a business that was one of the first of its kind in America, and becoming an industry leader, but she emerged as a source of encouragement for others facing adversity. She believe adversity is your greatest asset and that you can thrive in life and business, no matter what you have been through. Drawing upon her journey of survival and empowerment, she find joy in helping women align their purpose with their desired lifestyle so they can thrive and have more time for the things they care about and to help them get out of survival mode.

Edwina Adams

With nearly two decades of entrepreneurial experience, Edwina is a military veteran and retired paramedic who now specializes in business coaching and consulting. As a time management specialist, she helps business owners align their systems with personal goals to reclaim time and achieve real success. Edwina also delivers inspiring talks and has a podcast that empowers and motivates audiences, especially women in business. Edwina is also a loyal friend, loving wife, and mom who adores cool shoes. She is a published author, speaker and thought leader known as "Edwina the Encourager". Edwina not only survived challenging situations, including her first marriage to a con man, a near-death experience, founding a business that was one of the first of its kind in America, and becoming an industry leader, but she emerged as a source of encouragement for others facing adversity. She believe adversity is your greatest asset and that you can thrive in life and business, no matter what you have been through. Drawing upon her journey of survival and empowerment, she find joy in helping women align their purpose with their desired lifestyle so they can thrive and have more time for the things they care about and to help them get out of survival mode.

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