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How to Align & Thrive: Transforming Your Life from Survival to Success

Inspirational
February 17, 2025•3 min read

“We are not here to get to tomorrow. We are here for today, to bloom today. We were made to Thrive!” - Mark Hall

Surviving vs. Thriving:

Have you ever felt like you're just going through the motions, searching for a purpose that aligns with who you truly are? Like many women, you might find yourself juggling responsibilities, wondering when you'll finally get to live the life you've always desired. What if the secret to thriving in life is as simple as aligning your true purpose with your everyday actions? Let's embark on a journey together to discover how small shifts can transform survival modes into thriving lifestyles.

Finding Your True North:

Sometimes it feels like life's compass is broken and you're stuck on an endless loop. But what if I told you that deep down, you already have your True North? It’s like having a GPS that’s guiding you to what really matters, but perhaps it’s been on mute. Start small; think about moments that light you up inside. Was it a creative project, a deep conversation, or maybe a favorite activity from childhood you've long since buried? Rediscover these sparks to start aligning your life with what genuinely resonates with you.

Ditching the "Shoulds" and Embracing Choice:

Have you ever noticed how the word "should" sneaks into everyday decisions? "I should do this," or "I should be more like that." It's time to replace "should" with choice. By focusing on choices, you can shape a life that feels intentional rather than reactive. Think of it as the difference between surviving in a chaotic ocean storm or setting sail with a clear direction. Your choices, however small, are the currents guiding your ship, and you have the power to steer.

Creating Spaces for Growth:

Let's talk about the environments you spend your time in. Are they nurturing your spirit or draining your energy? Just like a plant needs the right soil to grow, you need surroundings that support your journey. This could mean decluttering your space, choosing friendships or groups that uplift, or finding a corner of your home that encourages peacefulness. Create a sanctuary that fosters your personal growth and allows you to reconnect with who you really are.

Celebrate the Journey, Not Just the Destination:

In pursuit of thriving, it's easy to set sights solely on goals and lose sight of the journey. Remember that each day offers a tiny piece of your greater puzzle. Celebrate small victories as they happen, and embrace detours, they’re often where the most enriching experiences hide. As you may know, I believe adversity is our greatest asset. Not that we choose adversity, but we know there is a way to heal and use it in our lives. This mindset keeps you aligned with purpose all along rather than just when reaching the finish line.

There is hope, you can Align & Thrive:

Aligning your life to thrive isn’t an overnight process, but it’s a rewarding journey full of growth and self-discovery. Start making small, mindful changes, and you’ll find yourself moving from survival mode to a flourishing existence before you know it. Take a moment today to re-examine your path; the alignment you seek is closer than you think. Want to join other women who are on a mission to kick the hustle & grind mentality for the align & thrive mindset? Join my Inner Circle for women ready to align & thrive and build impact. Learn more and apply at edwinaadams.com/coaching where you can be a part of a thriving community of like-minded women.


With nearly two decades of entrepreneurial experience, Edwina is a military veteran and retired paramedic who now specializes in business coaching and consulting. As a time management specialist, she helps business owners align their systems with personal goals to reclaim time and achieve real success. Edwina also delivers inspiring talks and has a podcast that empowers and motivates audiences, especially women in business. Edwina is also a loyal friend, loving wife, and mom who adores cool shoes. She is a published author, speaker and thought leader known as "Edwina the Encourager". Edwina not only survived challenging situations, including her first marriage to a con man, a near-death experience, founding a business that was one of the first of its kind in America, and becoming an industry leader, but she emerged as a source of encouragement for others facing adversity. She believe adversity is your greatest asset and that you can thrive in life and business, no matter what you have been through. Drawing upon her journey of survival and empowerment, she find joy in helping women align their purpose with their desired lifestyle so they can thrive and have more time for the things they care about and to help them get out of survival mode.

Edwina Adams

With nearly two decades of entrepreneurial experience, Edwina is a military veteran and retired paramedic who now specializes in business coaching and consulting. As a time management specialist, she helps business owners align their systems with personal goals to reclaim time and achieve real success. Edwina also delivers inspiring talks and has a podcast that empowers and motivates audiences, especially women in business. Edwina is also a loyal friend, loving wife, and mom who adores cool shoes. She is a published author, speaker and thought leader known as "Edwina the Encourager". Edwina not only survived challenging situations, including her first marriage to a con man, a near-death experience, founding a business that was one of the first of its kind in America, and becoming an industry leader, but she emerged as a source of encouragement for others facing adversity. She believe adversity is your greatest asset and that you can thrive in life and business, no matter what you have been through. Drawing upon her journey of survival and empowerment, she find joy in helping women align their purpose with their desired lifestyle so they can thrive and have more time for the things they care about and to help them get out of survival mode.

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