The True Story of Stolen Valor, Betrayal,
and the Psychological Damage Left Behind

Seasoned Cons don’t go after people who are easy to control. They go after the capable and the driven, people who would never fall for it. They don't need to use coercive control, because they earn your trust instead. That's why so few victims report it: they don't understand what happened to them, so they stay silent.
When Daniel was last convicted, neither the prosecutors nor I knew the full scope of his double life. Most still don't. This book is for everyone he fooled, for anyone who thinks it could never happen to them, and for the counselors who need to understand how this abuse differs from domestic abuse we hear so much about.
It took me 19 years after leaving him to uncover how deep his cons went. I spent years processing what happened, reconnecting with people he deceived, and interviewing them so I could tell this story the way it needs to be told.

Edwina Adams is an Air Force veteran and former paramedic. She built both careers while married to a man who encouraged every step and lied about nearly everything.
It took her 19 years after leaving him to uncover the full scope of his double life. Today she's telling the whole story, so his other victims know they aren't alone and readers understand how easily it can happen to capable, intelligent people.
Edwina is also an entrepreneur who has founded and sold multiple companies, a keynote speaker, and a podcast host. She lives in Texas with her husband and two children, and when she isn't writing, you'll find her creating art or adding to her impressive shoe collection.
This book is for educational purposes only and not professional advice.